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Get
real about yourself.
Sure,
we might all say we want a MacGyver (yes I'm showing my age) or a J-Lo
or a other-worldy immortal who graces our imagination and ...
Well,
take a deep breath for a sec. Such images grace your imagination...and
imagination, alas, is not real life!
Real
life includes basics like fundamental beliefs. Sanitary habits. Intellectual/creative
pursuits.
It's
so easy to declare, my perfect match would treat me like the god/goddess
incarnate that I am and worship me as I deserve. Thing is, such
behaviors can get real old real fast!
What
is it you *really* want? Are you a neat nick whose kitchen floor could
double as the hospital's Operating Room? If so, it wouldn't matter if your
date graces the swimsuit issue of whatever magazine that is which features
them....if she or he is content without running water, toilet paper or
vacuum cleaners, chances are, the match simply will not work.
Be
honest with yourself! After all, we're talking about the most important
person in the world. You! You know yourself best...you know what you're
willing to tolerate or accept or sacrifice for.
Got
that? When you know what you absolutely need in a relationship...and on
what you can compromise....you're well on your way of finding that perfect
match.
Ready
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